Baltimore, Maryland · Serving families nationwide

You were never supposed to do this alone.

When parents age, systems multiply. Doctors. Insurance. Medicaid. Discharge plans. Siblings with opinions. No one hands you a manual.

Eldest Daughters exists for the families who need clarity, coordination, and steady guidance through aging-related logistics and decisions.

What you're facing

And yet somehow, someone ends up carrying it.

Often, it's the one who asks the questions.

The one who reads the paperwork.

The one who keeps track of what was said and what still hasn't been done.

The one who lies awake running through scenarios.

“This is structured support for the adult child holding everything together. Emotional steadiness. Operational clarity. Independent accountability.”

— Eldest Daughters mission

How we help

We do three things well.

When everything feels urgent, we step in to bring order, coordinate the moving pieces, and make sure nothing falls through the cracks.

From chaos to structure — clarity, coordination, accountability

01

We bring clarity.

When everything feels urgent, we identify what actually matters first. You leave with a plan instead of overwhelm.

02

We coordinate the moving pieces.

Appointments. Paperwork. Follow-ups. Vendor communication. Transitions. We keep momentum when the system slows you down.

03

We create accountability.

If an agency says they'll call back, we track it. If a contract promises services, we verify delivery. If something stalls, we escalate appropriately.

This isn't about control. It's about making sure your parent isn't lost inside the system.

The evidence

38%

Reduction in hospital readmissions with interdisciplinary care coordination.

The research is clear: coordinated, interdisciplinary care keeps people out of the hospital and in better health. Eldest Daughters™ brings this approach to families navigating aging — without requiring you to piece it together yourself.

Source: American Journal of Managed Care

Services

Structured support. Clear investment.

Clarity Intensive

When you don't know where to begin. 90-minute session + written 30-day action roadmap.

$325.00

Access-supported options available →

Coaching & Emotional Support

Boundary setting, sibling dynamics, decision fatigue, and preparing for difficult conversations.

$125.00/session

Access-supported options available →

Care Navigation & Coordination

Appointment scheduling, discharge coordination, Medicaid documentation, and sustained coordination.

$135/hour

Access-supported options available →

Care Vendor & Contract Coordination

Review home care contracts, track service delivery, and escalate concerns appropriately.

Starting at $950

Home Safety & Accessibility Review

Identify environmental safety concerns and coordinate accessibility improvements for aging in place.

Starting at $550

Professional Referral Coordination

Connect with vetted estate attorneys, CPAs, home health agencies, and accessibility specialists.

Included with services

Kathy Yost, founder of Eldest Daughters

About Kathy

This work is personal.

I have sat at hospital bedsides.

I have navigated Medicaid spend-down requirements.

I have coordinated hospice.

I have liquidated a family home to fund care.

I have made the decisions no one prepares you for.

Eldest Daughters exists because that experience should not be wasted.

Support should not depend on wealth.

Eldest Daughters maintains limited reduced-rate access spots each month. If cost is a barrier, ask. We will respond honestly and respectfully.

The Access Fund allows supporters to sponsor a Clarity Session for a family who needs it.

The Network

When additional expertise is needed.

Some decisions require licensed expertise. Eldest Daughters™ maintains a vetted directory of attorneys, CPAs, home health agencies, and accessibility specialists.

A vetted ecosystem of professionals

Questions

Frequently asked.

You don't need to solve everything today.

You need a plan — and someone steady beside you.